Some people just walk into a room and something about them draws everyone's attention, without them trying. Their energy feels warm, calm and clear. You want to know them, listen to them ,admire them and trust them even though you've just met. This is magnetic energy, it's a quite power you hold and in this blog let's uncover ways to be magnetic naturally

THE QUITE POWER YOU ALREADY HOLD

          Let's talk being magnetic effortlessly, and here's the truth ,you don't create it by force ..you uncover it by returning to yourself, finding yourself and building that self connection. You train it into your nervous system by unlearning practices ,mindsets that you have practiced or that is enforced upon you by your surroundings. You train your nervous system to naturally perceive yourself as that person, from within.......

        In today's world ,where social media has influenced us through pretended confidence and endless self promotion that try to enforce that being magnetic is being better than others even if it means putting others down .True magnetism isn't about being " better" than the rest ,it's about being fully aligned with who you are and who you choose to be within, and letting that radiate outward.

        Everyone already holds this power, you already hold this power...you simply need to persist in embodying it instead of sabotaging yourself by comparison, self beliefs and doubts.

WHY MANY OF US FEEL "UNMAGNETIC" - AND WHY IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT

If you have ever felt like
- You're doing everything right but people do not notice you at all
- Opportunities always pass you by, even when you've put immense effort
- You've given so much in relationships to the point you loose yourself but still feel unseen
- You want to be confident, you try to..... but it feels exhausting

         If so, you're not alone, and it definitely doesn't mean something is wrong with you. You are a human being, you are allowed to feel ,live ,learn and unlearn things throughout your life, and this is one of them.
Often , here's what mostly happens - and again you can always take what resonates to you and leave the rest.
-> You assume you are invisible, you are never good enough to be noticed, that you have to work twice as hard than others to be noticed.
-> You often self sabotage by looping scenarios or circumstances with negative outcomes about your worth, your results and value. 
-> You try hard to prove your worth externally rather than assuming it to be your natural state .
-> You act from a place of lack ,which often subtly communicates that energy outward.

        If these resonate to you ,your not alone, when these happen you natural magnetism gets unclear - not because it's gone ,but because you are adapting an identity that blocks it.

THE REAL SECRET OF MAGNETIC PEOPLE

       People who are naturally magnetic, adapt ways and mindsets that make them that way. They consciously choose the assumptions they live by, they practice and persist within the energy they want to embody. Their mindset if often associated with them knowing they are valued , supported and loved regardless of difference of people's opinions in the room the walk in.

        Not only do they stay true and confident in their values and principles they assume  they are respected , loved and supported always. They don't say or think "I hope people like me, I hope they agree with me", And if you're wondering - no this isn't being cocky or overly confident. In a world that is surrounded by numerous opinions , judgements, you are simply teaching yourself and your mind to trust yourself, your reminding yourself its safe for you to trust that your energy will naturally resonate with the right people and opportunities.

          Your not doing it so that ,everyone must adore you, you are naturally attracting genuine connections who value you for who you are ,you align with things your worthy effortlessly. It's not about forcing outcomes or walking into a room and seeking validation or approval, it's knowing, it's embodying your worth in a way that life reflects  it back wherever you step in.

     

        Your magnetic aura is the energy what people feel from you before you even talk, and it's not something earned ,it's practiced ,embodied and anyone can have it. You build it by being authentic to yourself, by being happy inside ,healing your old hurts, doing what you love and taking care of yourself, your mind ,your body.

       It doesn't radiate by faking or trying  please everyone. Real magnetism always pulls the right people around you and pushes the wrong ones away.

PROBLEMS WE FACE WHEN WE'RE NOT IN OUR MAGNETIC ENERGY

          When you're void of your natural magnetic state / energy you often experience familiar situations over and over, and your not alone
- You constantly compare yourself to others
- You overthink every interaction you've had
- You struggle to trust your own value 
- You always tend to attract or involve yourself in relationships and opportunities that drain you
- You feel invisible even when you are trying extremely hard to shine

       And beneath all these it is the often repeated thought or mindset that says " I am not enough as I am". If ,you constantly rehearse this, live in a mindset  like this, even unconsciously - It will shape your presence, your energy and the way you're perceived. But the beauty of life is, anything and everything can be learned and unlearned ,you can always change your life by rewiring your brain, your habits.

HOW TO RECLAIM OR TRAIN YOUR MAGNETIC ENERGY

1)You practice the energy you want to embody

       You let go of all the things ,be present and sit with yourself, ask "What would the magnetic ,grounded ,self loving version of me assume about herself ? ".Then start training your mind  by thinking ,feeling and moving from that version. You protect and clean your energy often with things that help you like meditation, baths ,working out or even taking a walk outside. Use affirmations or visuals to rewire the way you perceive yourself, say to yourself " I am magnetic, I am worthy ,I am loved" . Change always happens from within and they eventually radiate outward.

2) Take constant care of your nervous system 

          Magnetic energy is not a highly stimulated or triggered energy, it is calm, confident and always self assured. If your nervous systems always is out of balance due to high anxiety, constant stress or more your energy will feel chaotic and confused .Use daily practices to regulate your nervous system such as : Breath work ,Gentle movement 
Slowing down before speaking, reacting or evening making decisions ,Spending time in calming environments
When your nervous system feels safe ,your body language and presence becomes naturally magnetic

3)Release the constant need to prove yourself or your worth

        Neediness, desperation, dependence on proving your worth always repels not because you're unworthy ,but because it signals and assumption of lack. So shift from the need of approval or attention to being already complete, from chasing worth to assuming being worthy 

4) Use affirmations or visualization to loop positive assumptions about yourself 

      If you've been an avid overthinker ,practice positive affirming, visualization - anything that helps you build assumptions about your worth. Something naturally, say,"Ofcourse  I am worthy, I am magnetic, It is safe for me to be seen and valued ,The right opportunities and people are always around me, I trust myself and my presence" .Think of this as rewiring your default thought loops, just like a habit your brain will adopt the assumptions you repeatedly feed it.

5)Focus on alignment, not manipulation

           Magnetic energy is never about manipulating people into liking you or respecting you. It's about you being so aligned and true to yourself that the right people are always drawn to you effortlessly. Before any encounter, interaction ,remind yourself " I am not here to impress, I am here to be my authentic and surround myself by the right people and opportunities".
People always feel the difference, your inner harmony ,your inner energy is always what makes you glow

LASTLY ,YOU ARE ALREADY MAGNETIC, JUST REMIND YOURSELF

         You were born magnetic, you were born with your own authentic energy, but ...overtime the world may have taught you to doubt it, to doubt yourself, to chase approval ,to seek validation and constantly rehearse fear.
         Now, you've got the choice to choose again, So pick your choice
-> Choose the life, assumptions ,thoughts, mindsets and habits that support your worth 
->Practice being that version daily, your not faking it your rewiring your old habits 
-> Persist in then until they feel you, until they feel natural to you, until you become one.
          Because when your inner world aligns with the person you look up to, the version you wished you'd always be, your outer world begins to mirror it back to you. It is not MAGIC, It is the power of mindful living, intentional living or living with awareness-and you, just as You are- already hold it.
        If this resonated with you, know it's just the beginning, you don't need to become magnetic just remember you already are.